So you found out your ex got married!

So, your ex got married and your still single and searching😐 Well, here are 6 things to remember as you process the news.

1. It's ok to be bothered by this. You two at one point loved each other and had a history so it's only natural.

2.Remember all the reasons  why it didn't work. You two aren't together for a reason and whatever issues he had then  he might still have now in his new marriage.

3. I personally found comfort in looking at a recent photo of my ex and his new wife and thinking to myself that I surly dodged that bullet! Thanks God!

4. All that glitters isn't gold. Who really knows what is going on in their relationship and 9 times out of 10 it's probably not the perfect marriage you have conjured up in your mind. 

5. Take the time you need to be bothered and feel salty and then forget about it. Keep it moving! Be as you were before you heard the news, living your life and doing you!

6. Also, Writing and talking to close friends about it may also be comforting to you, get your feelings out in a non-threatening way, if necessary.